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“God in the Dark” (Job 2:11-4:17)

“God in the Dark”

Job 2:11-4:17

Introduction

 

For every ten people who can withstand the temptations of adversity, only one can stand prosperity-or so it is said. When life is good we have no questions, and when it is hard we have no answers-or so it is said.

Group Discussion

 

Drawing on your own life, talk about why you agree or disagree with the statements above.

Personal Reflection

 

Describe an experience in which you were tempted to doubt God’s goodness. What questions did you ask? What thoughts, if any, did you have of God?

Snap Shot Summary

 

Job has handled his prosperity as a ministry and later defends his stewardship of abundance (29:7-25; 31:24-25). But now he is plunged into excruciating loss, a living death. Job’s new test will examine whether his belief in the goodness of God can be subverted by unalterably negative circumstances. Job will ask questions that are asked in wars and famine, when people are faced with congenital deformities and terminal illnesses. Job will later take up the cause of all the nameless, suffering poor (24:1-25). But in this study Job feels the weight of his own burden first.

Read Job 2:11-13

 

Questions

 

1. At this point in the story Job’s three friends travel a considerable distance to console Job. What actions of the friends indicate they understood how deeply Job was suffering?

For chapters 3 through 31 the story moves from prose to poetry as Job’s three friends discuss the meaning of his adversity and where-if anywhere-God was present in the darkness.

Read Job 3:1-26

 

2. In what ways does Job’s response to his suffering go beyond asking the usual why (3:1-10)?

3. Job’s chief complaint, to our surprise, in not his material loss but the loss of his spiritual estate (3:25-26). In what ways does this challenge you when faced with discontentment?

4. Though Job curses his birthday (3:1), he does not curse God. What is the difference?

5. What does Job think God’s role is in all this (3:11, 16)?

6. What new questions does Job ask in 3:20-26?

7. In what ways does Job’s speech go beyond the “poor me” complaint so frequently uttered by people in times of adversity?

  • Each of Job’s three friends makes a speech with Job responding-a cycle that is repeated three times in the book.

 

Read Job 4:1-17

 

8. Eliphaz responds cautiously at first and then attacks. Why does Eliphaz think Job is suffering?

9. Eliphaz counsels, “Should not your piety be your confidence and your blameless ways your  hope?” (4:6). Is this sound advice helpful? Explain.

10. Eliphaz thinks he has God’s word (4:12-17). Job only has dark questions. What have you learned so far about finding God in the midst of pain and loss?

11. How do you feel about living with unanswered questions?

Prayer

 

Ask God to show you how to put aside your life circumstances and find rest for your soul (Matthew 11:28).

Now or Later

 

None of the friends breathes a prayer in the whole book. But Job pours out his heart to God. Prayer is, paradoxically, both a blessing and a battle. Consider some of the many scriptural examples of “Taking God on” by righteous men and women; Abraham haggling over Sodom (Genesis 18:16-33); Jacob wrestling a blessing out of God (Genesis 32:22-29); Jesus praying in the garden (Matthew 26:36-46); Paul pleading three times for the removal of his “thorn” (2 Corinthians 12:8-9). See also the Psalms, Jeremiah 20:14-18 and Lamentations 3:1-18. As P. T. Forsyth once said, it may be God’s will that we surmount his will. What we mainly “get” through prayer is God!

C. S. Lewis wrote in ‘A Grief Observed’: “Talk to me about the truth of religion and I’ll listen gladly. Talk to me about the duty of religion and I’ll listen submissively. But don’t come talking to me about the consolations of religion or I shall suspect that you don’t understand.” What does this quote and these chapters from Job suggest to you about how to encourage someone who is grieving?

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Introduction to Job

“Introduction to Job”

  Job 1:1                                                  

Pain is the universal experience of all human beings. Everyone experiences pain at some point in their lives, and during that season of suffering, they often ask the same question: “Why? Why God? Why now? What did I do to deserve this?” These are haunting questions that echo within our minds and find no real answer.

            Life is difficult. That blunt, three-word statement is an accurate appraisal of our existence on this planet. No one could argue the point that life is punctuated with hardship, heartaches, and headaches. Most of us have learned to face the reality that life is difficult. But unfair? Something kicks in, deep within most of us, making it almost intolerable for us to accept and cope with what’s unfair. Our drive for justice overrides our patience with pain. Consider this example:

            You’re a single parent living 1200 miles from a job offer that comes to you from Houston. So you give serious thought to moving you and your three children (who are all under the age of fifteen) down south so that you might get a much better job working for a lot more money in a company that is really moving ahead. You make the move as you begin working for Enron. You find yourself fulfilled and stretched. Things are really looking up. You’re doing so well you decide to invest in the company’s stock. They money is good, your future is bright, and the news is out that this is the blue-chip company to be a part of. They’re even naming the new stadium in Houston after the Enron Corporation. Then one day you overhear some troubling comments at the water fountain.

            The scuttlebutt around the office isn’t encouraging. You doubt it, you question it, and in fact you put it out of your mind because, after all, your entire retirement funds are there, your health benefits are there, and your financial security is there. Suddenly, almost before you can blink, you get a pink slip, and it’s all over. You lose everything. It’s not your fault-you were doing a good job. You moved for all the right reasons, and now there’s the threat of losing your house. Life is difficult as you ponder telling the kids.

            A couple of days later you’re showering and you notice a small lump under your left breast. Your stomach turns. You can’t believe it. Two days later the biopsy reveals that you have an aggressive malignancy. Oh, I failed to mention, three years ago your husband ran off with his much younger and attractive assistant and, by the way, they’re doing great. Both of them have new cars, secure, well-paying jobs, and no kids. And you? You’re going to move in with your aging parents, neither of whom is all that healthy, and their little home has only three bedrooms. One day the full load hits you: Life is not just difficult, it’s downright unfair. Welcome to Job’s world.

Eugene Peterson, in his paraphrase of The Old Testament, says this in his introduction of Job:

                        It is not only because Job suffered that he is important to us. It is because he suffered in the same ways that we suffer-in the vital areas of family, personal health, and material things. Job is also important to us because he searchingly questioned and boldly protested his suffering. Indeed, he went “to the top” with his questions. It is not the suffering that troubles us. It is undeserved suffering. Almost all of us in our years of growing up have the experience of disobeying our parents and getting punished for it. When that discipline was connected with wrongdoing, it had a certain sense of justice to it: When we do wrong, we get punished.

                        One of the surprises as we get older, however, is that we come to see that there is no real correlation between the amount of wrong we commit and the amount of pain  we experience. An even larger surprise is that very often there is something quite  the opposite: We do right and get knocked down. We do the best we are capable of  doing, and just as we are reaching out to receive our reward we are hit from the  blind side and sent reeling.                              – Eugene Peterson, The Message

Those words describe precisely what happened with Job. Life was not simply difficult, it became absolutely unfair.

            Job was a man of unparalleled and genuine piety. He was also a man of well-deserved prosperity. He was a godly gentleman, extremely wealthy, a fine husband, and a faithful father. In a quick and brutal sweep of back-to-back calamities, Job was reduced to a twisted mass of brokenness and grief. The extraordinary accumulation of disasters that hit him would have been enough to finish off any one of us living today.

            Job is left bankrupt, homeless, helpless, and childless. He’s left standing beside the ten fresh graves of his now-dead children on a windswept hill. His wife is heaving deep sobs of grief as she kneels beside him, having just heard him say, “Whether our God gives to us or takes everything from us, we will follow Him.” She leans over and secretly whispers, “Just curse God and die.” Pause and ponder their grief-and remember the man had done nothing to deserve such unbearable pain.

            Misery and mystery are added to the insult and injury of Job’s real-life disasters. As he sits there covered with skin ulcers that have begun erupting with pus, swelling his body with fever and giving him a maddening itch that will not cease, he looks up into the faces of three friends who arrive on the scene. They sit and stare at the man for seven days and nights without uttering a word. Just imagine. First, they don’t recognize him, which tells you something of the extent of his swelling and the sores that covered his body. The sight causes them to be at a loss for words for a full week. Unfortunately, they didn’t remain silent. When they finally did speak, they had nothing to say but blame, accusation, and insult. “You’re getting what you deserve.” Though they shaped their cutting remarks in much more philosophical terms, they proved unmerciful. His pain only intensified.

            His misery turns to mystery with God’s silence. If the words of his so-called friends are hard to hear, the silence of God becomes downright intolerable. Not until the thirty-eighth chapter of the book does God finally break the silence, however long that took. If it were just a few months, try to imagine. You’ve become the object of your alleged friends’ accusations, and the heavens are brass as you plead for answers from the Almighty, who remains mysteriously mute. Nothing comes to you by way of comfort. It’s all so unfair; you’ve done nothing to deserve such anguish.

Job was human like the rest of us, and he was angry with God at times for allowing these tragic events to occur in his life. But his trust in God never wavered. The ability to trust God in the midst of suffering is a difficult task, yet one of the things that helps me is to remember God’s faithfulness to me in the past. Today I can look back at times of suffering in my own life that happened years ago and see God’s faithfulness throughout. I couldn’t see it as clearly at the time, but today I have a much better understanding of it all. This ability to see God’s faithfulness in the past has helped me wait patiently on God in present difficulties, knowing that He is faithful. I know He’s working in the midst of this current crisis just like He has in the past, and I need to trust Him. I like how Brennan Manning addresses this issue of trust:

                        Unwavering trust is a rare and precious thing because it often demands a degree of courage that borders on the heroic. When the shadow of Jesus’ cross falls across our lives in the form of failure, rejection, abandonment, betrayal, unemployment, loneliness, depression, the loss of a loved one; when we are deaf to everything but the shriek of our own pain; when the world around us suddenly seems a hostile, menacing place-at those times we may cry out in anguish, “How could a loving God permit this to happen?” At such moments the seeds of distrust are sown. It requires heroic courage to trust in the love of God no matter what happens to us.                                                                                                 -Ruthless Trust

            Times of intense pain and suffering remove all the shallow, superficial cliché’s of “Sure, I trust God.” To still love God and remain fully devoted to Him in the midst of suffering, to love Him even when you think He is unfair and callous is true love, true devotion, pure trust.

Hebrews 12:1-13 (NKJV)
Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. 3 For consider Him who endured such hostility from sinners against Himself, lest you become weary and discouraged in your souls. 4 You have not yet resisted to bloodshed, striving against sin. 5 And you have forgotten the exhortation which speaks to you as to sons: “My son, do not despise the chastening of the Lord, Nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by Him;
6 For whom the Lord loves He chastens, And scourges every son whom He receives.”  7 If you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten? 8 But if you are without chastening, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate and not sons. 9 Furthermore, we have had human fathers who corrected us, and we paid them respect. Shall we not much more readily be in subjection to the Father of spirits and live? 10 For they indeed for a few days chastened us as seemed best to them, but He for our profit, that we may be partakers of His holiness. 11 Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it. 12 Therefore strengthen the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees, 13 and make straight paths for your feet, so that what is lame may not be dislocated, but rather be healed.

Yes, God allows terrible things to happen in our lives, but during these times we must remember that we are not alone. Many have traveled the road of suffering before us like Job, like Jesus, and have been able to patiently endure.

One final thought. I believe that God allows seasons of suffering to occur in the life of every believer to test not only the reality of their faith but also the extent of their love for Him. You can’t fake your love while in pain. What I really believe in my heart and how I really feel about God and whether or not I really trust Him all become evident through season of suffering.  The ultimate proof of my love for God is demonstrated by absolute trust and surrender. These can only be proved true in the crucible of suffering. When you can say “Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him”(Job 13:15 (NKJV), you know that your love for God is real.

Questions:

1. How does God describe Job? Did the Lord consider Job to be a godly man or an ungodly man?

2. What 2 aspects of Job’s character and action does God highlight in verse 1?

3. What does it mean to be “blameless / perfect”?

Psalms 37:37 (NKJV)
37 Mark the blameless man, and observe the upright; For the future of that man is peace.

“Blameless does not mean perfect; it means he did not compromise with moral evil. He was a man whose business dealings were handled with integrity. He kept his word. He dealt fairly with others. As a result, he was respected by those around him, whether within or outside the family. He was upright. He was man of character”                                                                             – Chuck Swindoll

4. What does it mean to be “upright”?

Psalms 7:10 (NKJV)
10 My defense is of God, Who saves the upright in heart.

Psalms 11:2 (NKJV)
2 For look! The wicked bend their bow, They make ready their arrow on the string, That they may shoot secretly at the upright in heart.

5. What does it mean to “Fear the Lord”?

 

Job 28:28 (NKJV)
‘Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom, And to depart from evil is understanding.’ ”

“To ‘Fear the Lord’ means to ‘respect who He is, what He says, and what He does. It is not the cringing fear of a slave before a master but the loving reverence of a child before a father, a respect that leads to obedience.” Wiersbe

“The remarkable thing about fearing God, is that when you fear God you fear nothing else, whereas if you do not fear God you fear everything else.”               – Oswald Chambers

“The Bible often speaks of the value of fearing God, especially in Proverbs and Psalms; and it is always in the sense of reverential respect. Fear in the sense of respect considers God a friend. Fear in the sense of dread considers God an enemy. Christens, as followers of Christ, should fear God as a friend, knowing that we should reverence Him.”                                        -David Jeremiah

6. What does it mean to “Shun evil”? Is that always easy?

Areas we are turn away from:

‘False gods’

Genesis 35:1-2  Then God said to Jacob, “Arise, go up to Bethel and dwell there; and make an altar there to God, who appeared to you when you fled from the face of Esau your brother.” 2 And Jacob said to his household and to all who were with him, “Put away the foreign gods that are among you, purify yourselves, and change your garments.

‘Wine’

1 Samuel 1:12-14    And it happened, as she continued praying before the Lord, that Eli watched her mouth. 13 Now Hannah spoke in her heart; only her lips moved, but her voice was not heard. Therefore Eli thought she was drunk. 14 So Eli said to her, “How long will you be drunk? Put your wine away from you!”

‘False Ways’

Psalms 119:29  Remove from me the way of lying, And grant me Your law graciously.

‘All Types of Evil’

Isaiah 1:16  “Wash yourselves, make yourselves clean; Put away the evil of your doings from before My eyes. Cease to do evil

‘False Worship’

Amos 5:21-23   “I hate, I despise your feast days, And I do not savor your sacred assemblies. 22 Though you offer Me burnt offerings and your grain offerings, I will not accept them, Nor will I regard your fattened peace offerings. 23 Take away from Me the noise of your songs, For I will not hear the melody of your stringed instruments.

Matthew 15:7-9   Hypocrites! Well did Isaiah prophesy about you, saying: 8 ‘These people draw near to Me with their mouth, And honor Me with their lips, But their heart is far from Me. 9 And in vain they worship Me, Teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.’ “

7. Why does God begin the book of Job by describing Job’s character?

Conclusion:

From the very first verse it is established that Job was a man of faith-he was a man of proven integrity who feared God and pushed evil away.

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Wednesday Night – Job Study!

I’d like to personally invite you to come out and join us tonight @ 6:30 pm, right here at CCB for our weekly inductive book of Job study. Tonight we’ll be studying chapter 1:6-22. Along with our study we’ll be interactively answering these questions:

1. What indications are there that God’s evaluation of Job-“blameless and upright”-was correct even though he was initially blessed with prosperity?

 2. In this very ancient document, Satan appears as an angelic adversary with free access to God’s presence, unlike the devil in the New Testament. What does Satan accuse Job of (vv. 9-11)?

 3. For what good reasons could God agree to a contest that would affect Job and his family so painfully?

 4. How would you respond to someone who charges that religion is only for those who can’t make it on their own?

5. Though Job apparently is unaware of God’s approval, what signs indicate that this is important for Job?

6. How does Job react to the first test (vv. 20-22)?

7. In what ways is Job’s response (v. 22) different from responses people make today to life’s hard blows?

8. As will be apparent later, Job’s response included questioning God about the apparent injustice of his situation. What would have been seen as sinful behavior in Job’s reaction?

Have any great insigthts? Come and join us tonight as we grow together in the study of this wonderful book! God bless!

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