“God in the Dark”
Job 2:11-4:17
Introduction
For every ten people who can withstand the temptations of adversity, only one can stand prosperity-or so it is said. When life is good we have no questions, and when it is hard we have no answers-or so it is said.
Group Discussion
Drawing on your own life, talk about why you agree or disagree with the statements above.
Personal Reflection
Describe an experience in which you were tempted to doubt God’s goodness. What questions did you ask? What thoughts, if any, did you have of God?
Snap Shot Summary
Job has handled his prosperity as a ministry and later defends his stewardship of abundance (29:7-25; 31:24-25). But now he is plunged into excruciating loss, a living death. Job’s new test will examine whether his belief in the goodness of God can be subverted by unalterably negative circumstances. Job will ask questions that are asked in wars and famine, when people are faced with congenital deformities and terminal illnesses. Job will later take up the cause of all the nameless, suffering poor (24:1-25). But in this study Job feels the weight of his own burden first.
Read Job 2:11-13
Questions
1. At this point in the story Job’s three friends travel a considerable distance to console Job. What actions of the friends indicate they understood how deeply Job was suffering?
For chapters 3 through 31 the story moves from prose to poetry as Job’s three friends discuss the meaning of his adversity and where-if anywhere-God was present in the darkness.
Read Job 3:1-26
2. In what ways does Job’s response to his suffering go beyond asking the usual why (3:1-10)?
3. Job’s chief complaint, to our surprise, in not his material loss but the loss of his spiritual estate (3:25-26). In what ways does this challenge you when faced with discontentment?
4. Though Job curses his birthday (3:1), he does not curse God. What is the difference?
5. What does Job think God’s role is in all this (3:11, 16)?
6. What new questions does Job ask in 3:20-26?
7. In what ways does Job’s speech go beyond the “poor me” complaint so frequently uttered by people in times of adversity?
- Each of Job’s three friends makes a speech with Job responding-a cycle that is repeated three times in the book.
Read Job 4:1-17
8. Eliphaz responds cautiously at first and then attacks. Why does Eliphaz think Job is suffering?
9. Eliphaz counsels, “Should not your piety be your confidence and your blameless ways your hope?” (4:6). Is this sound advice helpful? Explain.
10. Eliphaz thinks he has God’s word (4:12-17). Job only has dark questions. What have you learned so far about finding God in the midst of pain and loss?
11. How do you feel about living with unanswered questions?
Prayer
Ask God to show you how to put aside your life circumstances and find rest for your soul (Matthew 11:28).
Now or Later
None of the friends breathes a prayer in the whole book. But Job pours out his heart to God. Prayer is, paradoxically, both a blessing and a battle. Consider some of the many scriptural examples of “Taking God on” by righteous men and women; Abraham haggling over Sodom (Genesis 18:16-33); Jacob wrestling a blessing out of God (Genesis 32:22-29); Jesus praying in the garden (Matthew 26:36-46); Paul pleading three times for the removal of his “thorn” (2 Corinthians 12:8-9). See also the Psalms, Jeremiah 20:14-18 and Lamentations 3:1-18. As P. T. Forsyth once said, it may be God’s will that we surmount his will. What we mainly “get” through prayer is God!
C. S. Lewis wrote in ‘A Grief Observed’: “Talk to me about the truth of religion and I’ll listen gladly. Talk to me about the duty of religion and I’ll listen submissively. But don’t come talking to me about the consolations of religion or I shall suspect that you don’t understand.” What does this quote and these chapters from Job suggest to you about how to encourage someone who is grieving?
