John now begins 1 John 3 saying:
1a Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God!
A. What an awesome privilege that God has given to each of us as believers –
1. That we should be called the ‘children of God!’
B. I don’t think that anyone of us can fully appreciate how blessed that we are in this sense
1. The alternative is to be called the children of the devil
C. That is in fact what Christ said to the Pharisees in –
John 8:30-44
30 As He spoke these words, many believed in Him. 31 Then Jesus said to those Jews who believed Him, “If you abide in My word, you are My disciples indeed. 32 And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.”
33 They answered Him, “We are Abraham’s descendants, and have never been in bondage to anyone. How can you say, ‘You will be made free’?” 34 Jesus answered them, “Most assuredly, I say to you, whoever commits sin is a slave of sin. 35 And a slave does not abide in the house forever, but a son abides forever. 36 Therefore if the Son makes you free, you shall be free indeed. 37 “I know that you are Abraham’s descendants, but you seek to kill Me, because My word has no place in you. 38 I speak what I have seen with My Father, and you do what you have seen with your father.” 39 They answered and said to Him, “Abraham is our father.” Jesus said to them, “If you were Abraham’s children, you would do the works of Abraham. 40 But now you seek to kill Me, a Man who has told you the truth which I heard from God. Abraham did not do this. 41 You do the deeds of your father.” Then they said to Him, “We were not born of fornication; we have one Father–God.” 42 Jesus said to them, “If God were your Father, you would love Me, for I proceeded forth and came from God; nor have I come of Myself, but He sent Me. 43 Why do you not understand My speech? Because you are not able to listen to My word.
44 You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it.
D. What a great privilege to know JESUS CHRIST as Personal Lord and Savior
1. This is the message of the Gospel!
John 3:16
16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
E. Jesus Christ is God’s ONLY BEGOTTEN SON;
1. But as God’s ADOPTED CHILDREN-
a. We are called the children of God!
1b Therefore the world does not know us, because it did not know Him.
A. Not everyone is a child of God
1. Sometimes I hear people say that “We’re all the children of God” – but that’s not true
B. Only those who have repented of their sins and put their faith in Jesus Christ have become
1. “The CHILDREN of God”
C. The world can’t identify with us
1. They don’t know us, or understand us
2. They CAN’T because they DON’T KNOW GOD
D. The world can’t understand how you and I can get up on a perfectly good Sunday morning
1. And GO TO CHURCH!
2. To the world, they can’t identify with that
E. “The sun is out, the day is beautiful, why waste it in church around other people?”
1. John says the WORLD DOES NOT KNOW US…because they don’t know God
2. They don’t have a PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP with Jesus Christ
F. Many people have an INTELLECTUAL RELATIONSHIP with the Lord;
1. They know OF HIM, but they are not IN HIM
G. And only those of us who have been given this privilege of being called the children of God
1. Can identify with one another
2 Beloved, now we are children of God;
A. I love how TENDER John is!
1. His maturity in the Lord over all the years of walking with Christ have matured him
2. He loves those whom he is writing & he is writing those whom he loves
a. There is no struggle in John’s heart to IDENTIFY himself w/ the family of God
b. In fact he sort of DELIGHTS in it!
B. “Beloved of God”
1. NOW — we are the children of God
C. We don’t have to wait until the end to find out how the story ends;
1. NOW – TODAY we know HOW the story ENDS because
2. WE ARE the children of God!
Romans 8:35-39 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? 36 As it is written: “For Your sake we are killed all day long; We are accounted as sheep for the slaughter.” 37 Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. 38 For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, 39 nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
D. For all of us who have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ;
1. We already KNOW the END of the story
2. We can SLEEP TIGHT and not let the BED BUGS BITE
a. Because no matter what happens…
i. We ARE NOW called the CHILDREN OF GOD!
2b and it has not yet been revealed what we shall be, but we know that when He is revealed, we shall be like Him, for we shall see Him as He is.
A. As CHILDREN OF GOD…
1. We are all WORKS of PROGRESS
2. NONE of us are COMPLETE
3. None of us are at the point where God is finished with us
a. If we were, God would take us home
B. But because God’s not done with us, we are all WORKS IN PROGRESS
1. And God has commanded us to be PATIENT with one another
2. We can’t hurry that process in OUR OWN LIVES
3. And neither can we hurry that process in the LIVES of another FAMILY MEMBER
a. And I’m ok with that!
C. I think that one of our greatest struggles as Christians, is to get in a HURRY to MATURE
1. Or to think that we can HURRY the PROCESS of God’s timing in others
D. Maybe it’s even for the PROCESS of SALVATION
1. “I’m anxious to see my husband or wife or children come to know the Lord”
2. But John says here that we can’t hurry that process
E. God is working on each of us individually- in HIS TIME, according to HIS PLANS
1. We have not yet experience FULL MATURITY…
2. But we know that when Christ appears, we will be LIKE HIM
a. We will each be completed at that moment & receive our glorified bodies
F. A lot of people are confused over 1 Cor 13:9-13, let’s look at that passage:
1 Corinthians 13:9-13
9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part. 10 But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away. 11 When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. 12 For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known. 13 And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
G. Many people doctrinally believe that verse 10 has already been fulfilled in the coming of Christ
1. Yet as Paul states here, it hasn’t been fulfilled yet
H. Right now, you and I see in a mirror dimly, but at the BEMA SEAT we shall then see the Lord
1. FACE TO FACE
I. We only know IN PART TODAY;
1. We don’t have a full understanding
2. We are not yet fully mature in Christ
3. As God’s children, we are all WORKS IN PROGRESS
J. And one of God’s great promises to each of His children is found in –
Philippians 1:6 being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ;
K. God began it and He will complete it, and ONE DAY in the FUTURE;
1. When CHRIST IS REVEALED
2. We shall be LIKE HIM
3. For we shall SEE HIM as He is!!!
3 And everyone who has this hope in Him purifies himself, just as He is pure.
A. Isn’t that wonderful that God has given us the incredible PRIVILEGE of BEING PURE?!
1. We no longer need to be CONTROLLED by the PASSIONS of our FLESH
2. God has BROKEN THAT BONDAGE that our flesh had over us
B. As children of the world, we were DOMINATED and MASTERED by our FLESH;
1. But as CHILDREN of God, we have been SET FREE
John 8:36 If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.
C. We’ve been set free and given the privilege of DAILY CHOOSING to live
1. A SANCTIFIED life in Christ
D. All of God’s true children have this hope of one day seeing Him FACE TO FACE
1. And it is through this FUTURE HOPE that we LIVE a PURIFIED LIFE
E. I’m going to DAILY SEEK to cleanse my life from everything that does not glorify God
1. “Lord what else in my life should not be a part of my life?”
2. “Is there anything in my life that needs to go?”
F. So all who ‘have this hope’, PURIFIES HIMSELF, even AS CHRIST IS PURE
4 Whoever commits sin also commits lawlessness, and sin is lawlessness.
A. Paul says in –
Romans 6:1-7
What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? 2 God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein? 3 Know ye not, that so many of us as were baptized into Jesus Christ were baptized into his death? 4 Therefore we are buried with him by baptism into death: that like as Christ was raised up from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life. 5 For if we have been planted together in the likeness of his death, we shall be also in the likeness of his resurrection: 6 Knowing this, that our old man is crucified with him, that the body of sin might be destroyed, that henceforth we should not serve sin. 7 For he that is dead is freed from sin.
B. God has freed us from sin, and as children of God
1. We can no longer allow sin to master us
C. We may and WILL WRESTLE with sin,
1. But as God’s children, we can no longer allow it to ABIDE IN US
2. When we sin, we are CONVICTED and REPENT and RESTORED
3. We may FALL, but we get back up and seek restoration in CHRIST
5 And you know that He was manifested to take away our sins, and in Him there is no sin.
A. Jesus Christ was and is SINLESS and He came for ONE PURPOSE
1. To TAKE AWAY our SINS
2. He didn’t die for HIS OWN SINS but for the sins of the world
a. So John says –
6a Whoever abides in Him does not sin.
A. The ONLY WAY to REMAIN FREE from the bondage of SIN is to ABIDE in Christ
1. Because Christ is SINLESS…
2. As we ABIDE IN HIM… we will live sinless lives
B. When a person falls in sin, it may not necessarily be because a person isn’t saved;
1. But rather, as a CHILD OF GOD,
2. SIN will overtake us when we FAIL to ABIDE in CHRIST
a. He is PURE and we too are MADE PURE as we ABIDE in Him!
6b Whoever sins has neither seen Him nor known Him.
A. The word ‘sins’ here is PRESENT TENSE – LIFE STYLE
1. Those who live in sin are not really saved
B. The true child of God, cannot abide in a sinful life
1. A TRUE CHRISTIAN may be a PRODIGAL SON for a SEASON;
2. But eventually, he/she will come back to their senses and RETURN to the Lord
7a Little children, let no one deceive you.
A. Many false gospels going out today declaring that you can live in sin and still be a Christian
1. But John is saying ‘don’t let anyone deceive you’
7b He who practices righteousness is righteous, just as He is righteous.
A. The evidence of salvation is a righteous lifestyle
1. If I say that I am a CHRISTIAN – CHRIST-LIKE,
2. Then I will PRACTICE RIGHTEOUSNESS
B. Again if God is PURE and I am IN GOD;
1. Then I WILL BE PURE
C. “Don’t let anyone deceive you into thinking that –
1. You can claim to be IN GOD if you are IN SIN
8 He who sins is of the devil, for the devil has sinned from the beginning. For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that He might destroy the works of the devil.
A. Everyone who LIVES/ABIDES in sin is demonstrating WHO CHILD they really are
1. He who LIVES IN SIN belongs to their father the DEVIL
B. Everyone who is IN CHRIST has been given the POWER OVER SIN
1. Christ has DESTROYED the power of SATAN over the CHILDREN OF GOD
9 Whoever has been born of God does not sin, for His seed remains in him; and he cannot sin, because he has been born of God.
A. If I go out and plant a pumpkin seed this spring,
1. That pumpkin seed doesn’t have to TRY to GROW INTO A PUMPKIN
2. Neither does it NEED TO FEAR becoming a WATERMELON, squash or a bean
B. When you plant a PUMPKIN SEED, it will NATURALLY BECOME WHAT IT IS
1. Whoever has been truly BORN AGAIN, will grow in CHRISTLIKENESS
10 In this the children of God and the children of the devil are manifest: Whoever does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor is he who does not love his brother. 11 For this is the message that you heard from the beginning, that we should love one another, 12 not as Cain who was of the wicked one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his works were evil and his brother’s righteous.
A. The difference between the children of God and the devil are seen in two specific areas:
1. Righteousness & Love
B. Those who live RIGHTEOUS and LOVE his BROTHER is of God
1. Those who LIVE IN SIN & are BOUND BY HATRED
a. Belong to their father the devil
C. “Let know one deceive you”
1. Not even your own mind
2. These are the measurements of TRUE SALVATION
“In this we know that we are the children of God, in that we love one another”
13 Do not marvel, my brethren, if the world hates you.
A. They hate each other, why shouldn’t they hate you too?!
1. Hate is just a natural emotion from the unbeliever
B. Jesus said “out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks”
1. A person doesn’t hate you because you are such a TERRIBLE PERSON
C. Rather the world hates you because they are FULL OF HATE, like their father the devil
1. And out of the abundance of their hearts, their mouths speak
D. Out of the abundance of LOVE the CHILDREN of God speak;
1. As out of the abundance of the heart of HATE, the children of God speak
E. The true evidence of salvation is demonstrated in RIGHTEOUSNESS & LOVE;
1. Or LACK thereof
14 We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love the brethren. He who does not love his brother abides in death. 15 Whoever hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him. 16 By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us. And we also ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.
A. Satan so oftentimes will beat us up trying to convience us of our lack of salvation;
1. But here Jesus says, you can be assured that you are saved in your love for the breather
B. If you DON’T LOVE your brethren;
1. Then you really don’t have ANY ASSURANCE of being God’s child
C. Is God love? YES!!!
1. Then if we ABIDE IN CHRIST, we will be ABIDING IN LOVE!
D. How do we know that we are IN CHRIST?
1. “By this shall all men know that you are My disciples, that you LOVE one another!”
E. HATRED for another Christian, a desire for their HARM or DESTRUCTION is satanic
1. And those who have such feeling ABIDES IN DEATH
17 But whoever has this world’s goods, and sees his brother in need, and shuts up his heart from him, how does the love of God abide in him? 18 My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth.
A. The Apostle James puts it this way –
James 2:14-17 What doth it profit, my brethren, though a man say he hath faith, and have not works? can faith save him? 15 If a brother or sister be naked, and destitute of daily food,
16 And one of you say unto them, Depart in peace, be ye warmed and filled; notwithstanding ye give them not those things which are needful to the body; what doth it profit? 17 Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone.
B. True salvation is not only meted out in RIGHTEOUSNESS and LOVE, but ACTION
1. TRUE LOVE ALWAYS produces WORKS
“My deeds don’t save me, they simply reveal my salvation.”
C. This too is what John is saying
1. “Don’t just say you LOVE SOMEONE, SHOW THEM!”
D. If your brother whom you say you love has a need, and you have the MEANS;
1. Then don’t just talk about LOVING HIM;
2. SERVE HIM
3. Give to Him from that which God has given you
E. Does it mean more to have someone tell you that they love you, or to have them show it?
1. Like the greeting card once a year….
a. “Well I rarely tell you how much I love you, but you know I do…”
b. Yeah, WHATEVER!
F. If you REALLY LOVE ME, then SHOW ME!!!
1. Don’t just have someone write it out in a card once a year & think that’s good enough
2. “Ok, now I can justify my DEAD EMOTIONS for another 12 months, got the card!”
G. John says “if you see your brother in need, and you shut up your heart towards him…”
1. Then how does the love of God abide in him?
2. The truth is, it doesn’t
3. God’s love REALLY DOESN’T ABIDE in that person’s heart
H. If you see your WIFE EMOTIONALLY DISTRAUGHT –
1. And you shut up your heart towards her,
2. How can you say ‘the love of God abides in you’ – it really doesn’t!
18 My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth.
19 And by this we know that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before Him. 20 For if our heart condemns us, God is greater than our heart, and knows all things.
A. Also in, 1 John 4:18, John says:
1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love.
B. As we abide in Christ, in His RIGHTEOUSNESS, LOVE and DEEDS
1. PERFECT LOVE casts out all fear
2. How often our hearts condemn us, only to find that we’re not abiding as we should be
21 Beloved, if our heart does not condemn us, we have confidence toward God.
A. Abiding in Christ produces total assurance or confidence in our walk with Christ
1. My EMOTIONS may run ALL OVER THE MAP
2. But as I abide in Christ, my CONFIDENCE is established!
22 And whatever we ask we receive from Him, because we keep His commandments and do those things that are pleasing in His sight. 23 And this is His commandment: that we should believe on the name of His Son Jesus Christ and love one another, as He gave us commandment. 24 Now he who keeps His commandments abides in Him, and He in him. And by this we know that He abides in us, by the Spirit whom He has given us.
A. How do we abide in Christ?
1. Simply by keeping His commandments
B. We are SAVED BY GRACE through FAITH;
1. But we ABIDE in Christ by keeping His commandments
C. As we keep His commandments, we abide in Him, and He in us
Conclusion:
John 15:1-8
1 “I am the true vine, and My Father is the vinedresser.
2 Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit He prunes, that it may bear more fruit.
3 You are already clean because of the word which I have spoken to you.
4 Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in Me.
5 I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing.
6 If anyone does not abide in Me, he is cast out as a branch and is withered; and they gather them and throw them into the fire, and they are burned.
7 If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you.
8 By this My Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit; so you will be My disciples.





